If you're looking at the iris data:
data(iris)
head(iris)
Sepal.Length Sepal.Width Petal.Length Petal.Width Species
1 5.1 3.5 1.4 0.2 setosa
2 4.9 3.0 1.4 0.2 setosa
3 4.7 3.2 1.3 0.2 setosa
4 4.6 3.1 1.5 0.2 setosa
5 5.0 3.6 1.4 0.2 setosa
6 5.4 3.9 1.7 0.4 setosa
And you needed to know which column number "Sepal.Width" and "Species" were, use the which() function:
mycols <- c("Sepal.Width","Species")
which(names(iris) %in% mycols)
[1] 2 5
which(names(iris)=="Petal.Length")
[1] 3
Simple.